{"id":2655,"date":"2025-09-29T09:00:09","date_gmt":"2025-09-29T00:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/goodie-foodie.com\/en\/?p=2655"},"modified":"2025-09-24T10:25:18","modified_gmt":"2025-09-24T01:25:18","slug":"osechi-etiquette-chopsticks-eating-order-meanings-23105","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/goodie-foodie.com\/en\/osechi-etiquette-chopsticks-eating-order-meanings-23105\/","title":{"rendered":"Essential Osechi Etiquette: Chopsticks, Eating Order, and Symbolic Meanings"},"content":{"rendered":"

The Special Chopsticks Used for Osechi<\/h2>\r\n
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\u00a9ykokamoto \/ PIXTA<\/p>\r\n

We use double-ended chopsticks called *iwaibashi* (celebratory chopsticks). You might think the opposite end could be used as serving chopsticks, but that is not allowed. The other side is reserved for the gods. It is believed that by sharing a meal with the gods, you receive divine blessings for the coming year. If serving chopsticks are needed, always prepare a separate pair.<\/p>\r\n

Is There an Order for Who Starts Eating?<\/h2>\r\n
\"Is<\/div>\r\n

\u00a9Fast&Slow \/ PIXTA<\/p>\r\n

While everyone may want to start together, there is actually an order for who uses the chopsticks first.
\r\nThe first to pick up food is the head of the household. This doesn\u2019t mean they eat every dish first, but simply that they take the very first bite. After that, the order doesn\u2019t matter much at home. However, when eating outside, the most senior or respected person eats first, so be mindful of the etiquette.<\/p>\r\n

Is There a Proper Order for Eating the Dishes?<\/h2>\r\n
\"Is<\/div>\r\n

\u00a9shige hattori \/ PIXTA<\/p>\r\n

When served in tiered boxes (*j\u016bbako*), the dishes should be eaten starting from the first tier, then the second, and finally the third. It is bad manners to eat directly from the box\u2014always transfer food to your own plate first. If *otoso* (spiced sake) is served, that should be taken before starting on the dishes. Since it\u2019s alcoholic, children and those who will be driving should avoid drinking it.<\/p>\r\n

Know the Meanings Behind Osechi Dishes<\/h2>\r\n
\"Symbolic<\/div>\r\n

\u00a9Promolink \/ PIXTA<\/p>\r\n

Osechi dishes are filled with symbolic foods considered to bring good fortune.<\/p>\r\n